Category: Advice

Do you have the blues?

Style icon and legendary former Editor-in-Chief of Vogue once said, “Blue jeans are the most beautiful things since the gondola”.

Blue jeans have come a long way since the acid washed, patch covered, ripped and torn bottoms of yesterday. Today, they are just about the most important article of clothing in any wardrobe. The fact is, blue jeans now define our fashion sense more than any other item. Read more

Fifty Shades of Fire

In the altruistic sense, denying perspectives can prevent one from being led, willing or not, down a path to self or peer destruction. However, with every action, with every choice, there is a consequence. That point, leads me to this; I have never been, nor will ever be a fan of the novel 50 Shades of Grey. Read more

HORROR BOOK Reviews (April)


Book Reviews of (fairly) recent publications. Each of the following books may be purchased through any large book store or online through

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Green With Envy

imageI recently bought my third pair of green athletic inspired shoes. This time I bought the Saucony jazz from I find that a little green brightens up an everyday look. While out and about, I like to study current styles and trends. I fimd that about two in ten guys have great personal style, three in ten need just a little help, and the rest just don’t seem to care. The common denominator among the best of this group was that they were not afraid to go green. Read more

Ask Her: Bend Over Boyfriend; The Truth About Pegging

4fc4c4f2cb15fDear Bailey,

My wife wants to do me with a strap-on, and although I’m not REPULSED by the idea, I am afraid it will emasculate me in her eyes in some way, or make her think I’m gay.  What should I do?

Sam S. –Hollywood Ca Read more

Ask Her: Going Limp with the Girl on Top

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I feel I have an amazing sex life, and I’m very attracted to my woman, but when she rides me cowgirl style I always go limp. Is there anything wrong with me?

-Greg A;  Avalon, CA

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Tired of the White Stuff? Try a Spot of Color

imageSigns of spring are evident everywhere you look. The ground is starting to thaw, flowers are beginning to poke through, and the sense that color is near has my eyes focused on great fashion options for spring. Spring doesn’t simply mean rotate to the short sleeve shirts to the front of the closet or boxing up the wool scarves and heavy coats. Read more

Ask Her: Overcoming a Small Penis

Dear Bailey,

smallI have a small penis.  There is no denying that, and I fall well below the national average. I’ve heard the cliché it’s not the size that matters but what you do with it, but I am very insecure about it.  Is there anything I can do to make sure my woman is satisfied?

-Tom T, Smallsville


The short answer (no pun intended) is Read more

Writer’s Resources – CONVENTIONS

2011-Comic-Con-CrowdIf you are interested in pursuing writing as a serious occupation, make sure that you utilize all the best resources available, including the precious in-person relationships that can be developed at national writers’ conferences or conventions.

This is your chance to meet agents, editors, publishers, peers, and (perhaps surprisingly) even fans! The first time someone I didn’t know brought a book to me to sign and said they enjoyed my work (heart be stilled!) was at a convention. Read more

We’ve Got a Package for You…

Signed.  Sealed.  Delivered.

Life can be as simple as ordering a pizza.  Seriously.   So, get off your lazy butts and get online–the latest monthly delivery options offer ways to make your life cooler and easier. Read more