Tag: confidence

Ask Her: Public Sex

Dear Bailey,

My girlfriend has a kink that I’m uncomfortable with. She can only have an orgasm when she is on camera or when people are watching her. She also says when she masturbates, she pretends to have people watch her, and in the past has used a webcam so people could watch her. In all other ways she is amazing and normal.  What can I do?

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Surround Yourself With The Right People

Take a look around you. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Your 5 closest friends are “you”. Good people are drawn to good people, and shitty people are drawn to shitty people. Now, there are exceptions to that rule, obviously. But we’re looking at the majority here. Crackheads don’t hang out with bible thumpers, and successful people don’t run with losers.  Read more

Confidence: Removing Self-Doubt


You’ve heard it before: “Sell with confidence”, “The confident approach”, Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” We could go on listing confident quotes for the entire article, but it’s not going to change the person you are. Confidence isn’t something you’re born with, it’s something you work at. Confidence isn’t even something that’s necessarily learned, it’s practiced. Read more

Buy the Damn Chocolate! (Winter Dating Tips)

It’s about taking action, really. If you just took the advice in the headline your life with women would be much easier. Women like Chocolate. When?  Before the words even come out of their mouths.  And it’s damn wise to have chocolate stashed away when the statement has been made, “I want some Chocolate.”  It’s really one of the most straight-forward, to- the- point phrases that women make. Ok, not ALL women like chocolate, but most of them do.  However, it is essential equipment for the single & confident man.

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The Approach For Confident Men

Gone in 60 Seconds, a quick One-Eighty.

So did that stunning beauty just leave your ass like a Shelby GT500? Was she “Gone in 60 Seconds”? Has Eleanor (aka the beautiful woman) slipped from your grips again?  Any solid driver knows you need a good 180 – a good 180 seconds, that is. Yes, we’re talking pure time here, fellas. It’s true; you only have about 3 minutes before a woman decides if she likes you or not.  And we are referring to the VERY FIRST interaction you have with her. This article will give you some basic Nuts n’ Bolts you’ll need to cover before she hits “Go Baby Go” and leaves you in the dust.


Over and over again I have watched men fail with women because they don’t understand the first key principles of “meeting women”.  The first principle is, understanding how important those first short one hundred and eight seconds are.

Let’s put the pedal to the metal and get right to it…

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