Tag: dating

Ask Her: Why Nice Guys Are Awful To Date

Dear Bailey,spotniceguy

I’m a nice guy.  I was raised to treat women with respect, be agreeable, never talk down to them, etc.  I also find I am perpetually single.  My relationships last quite a while, but I always end up getting dumped after a couple years, and it usually takes me at least a year to find another girlfriend.  Is it really true that nice guys finish last?  What am I doing wrong? 

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Ask Her: Can Any Girl Learn to Squirt?

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Dear Bailey,

My ex-girlfriend always squirted when she had an orgasm, and my current GF wants to learn how.  If a girl has never squirted, can she learn how to do it?

-Jason M; Rancho Cucamonga, CA


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Old People Behaving Badly

Last week, a friend in his mid 60’s approached me who knew about my undergraduate studies in sexual behavior.  He was wondering at what age he was likely to stop having sex.  It caught me as odd because he seems spry, but this is not as uncommon a question as you’d think. Most people assume that sex stops after some vague age.

Here is a statistic you can’t unlearn:  Last week, more than half of those aged 57 to 75 said they gave or received oral sex.  Yes, Grandpa went south on Grandma, and in return she gobbled Grandpa’s knob. Read more

Successfully Navigating Speed Dating

With the launch party/speed-dating event of Finding Love Magazine looming, I’ve been getting bombarded with questions about speed dating protocol. Since you only have five to ten minutes to decide whom you consider long-term partner material, you must make your speed dating count.

Beautiful women love to go speed dating because men often don’t have the courage to approach them in a normal social setting, and it’s a fun night out with their girlfriends.  This is not the case for the guys. Eligible men don’t round up their buddies on a Saturday night for a few beers and two hours of speed dating just for fun. The guys on your left and right will often be unattractive, dull, socially awkward, or live with their mother. If this is you, don’t panic! Ladies tend not too be too shallow, and one of these traits probably won’t be a deal breaker, but you’ll stand out from the crowd if you don’t have too many of them. Read more

Your Online Dating Profile

So you are ready to take the plunge into online dating and aren’t sure how to start.  Perhaps you’ve had a profile up for some time and have not had any luck with it. Either way, I will be going over the do’s and don’ts of your online dating profile.  Although my advice will be geared towards guys, you ladies might want to take heed as well.  As you design your online dating profile, remember to keep these guidelines fresh in your mind. Read more

A No Nonsense Pick Up

Let’s face it. The Internet is abound with dating tips, pick up lines, and various styles and tricks to close the deal, but the reality is that most of it is bogus.  There is NEVER a sure fire way to get a girl.  Once you understand that concept, getting a date becomes much easier. Read more

How To Get Women


You’re single. You want a great girl that isn’t crazy, looks attractive, and has her shit together. But you keep asking yourself what the secret is on how to get women. The truth is, it’s all about confidence, but not the confidence you have after 6 beers. It comes from surrounding yourself with people that have goals and ambition. It comes from growing as a person in your everyday life. It comes from being in decent shape. It’s not the end of the world. You’re going to find out how to get women.

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Buy the Damn Chocolate! (Winter Dating Tips)

It’s about taking action, really. If you just took the advice in the headline your life with women would be much easier. Women like Chocolate. When?  Before the words even come out of their mouths.  And it’s damn wise to have chocolate stashed away when the statement has been made, “I want some Chocolate.”  It’s really one of the most straight-forward, to- the- point phrases that women make. Ok, not ALL women like chocolate, but most of them do.  However, it is essential equipment for the single & confident man.

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