Tag: sex

Ask Her: Why Do Women Think Rape Fantasy is Sexy?

bondageDear Bailey,

 My wife recently came to me and told me that she hasn’t been sexually satisfied in some time.  She says that she can only get excited if she is thinking about being raped, and now wants me to “rape” her.  I’m a little hesitant, as I’ve always considered violence against women to be repugnant. What should I do?

 Jeff H. –Manchester, England Read more

Epic Naked Vacation Getaway

We all love to travel, and lets face it… most of us love to be naked.  The staff at Men’s Confidence Magazine was fortunate enough to combine the best of these two worlds into one epic weekend in Palm Springs.  We visited Sea Mountain Inn and Spa; a not so family friendly destination and boy we were in for a treat. Read more

Ask Her: Living in a BDSM relationship

Dear Bailey,

I have just finished the Fifty Shades of Grey series.  Given the runaway success of the novel and its sequels, particularly among women, do you think bondage and consensual S&M can play a healthy role in a successful, long-term relationship? I would really like to explore this type of relationship with my husband, but my friends tell me I’m twisted for wanting it.

-Laura B; San Diego, CA


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Ask Her, Vol. 8 The Brian Howard Show

Have you ever wondered what I sound like in person?  What I think about anal sex? Now you can find out!

Today I had the pleasure to be a guest on the Brian Howard Show in Los Angeles California.  I was the resident relationship expert and had an amazing time.  I was in studio with the funny and talented Brian Howard, the sexy and unkillable Jennifer Lynne, and the amazing Jack Dagger who (no joke) was rated as one of People Magazine’s 100 sexiest people, and has appeared on Conan O’Brien and the Tonight Show.

Special Thanks to The Texifornia Tamale Co, located in Blue Jay, CA for donating the most incredible food we’ve ever eaten.  I’m serious.  If you are in Southern California, stop by Lake Arrowhead/Blue Jay and give them a try.  You will be glad you made the drive. It’s road trip worthy. Give em a call at (909) 336-1200, and tell them that Bailey Ryan sent you.

Additional thanks are due to A Shot Above Bartending for supplying the Jello shots for the SEX CONTEST on the show.  Listen now to hear the fun and games!  Give them a call for ALL you bartending needs.

Listen to me talk about anal sex, orgasms, and the truth about open relationships:

Visit: The Brian Howard Show, featuring Bailey Ryan and listen now!



Old People Behaving Badly

Last week, a friend in his mid 60’s approached me who knew about my undergraduate studies in sexual behavior.  He was wondering at what age he was likely to stop having sex.  It caught me as odd because he seems spry, but this is not as uncommon a question as you’d think. Most people assume that sex stops after some vague age.

Here is a statistic you can’t unlearn:  Last week, more than half of those aged 57 to 75 said they gave or received oral sex.  Yes, Grandpa went south on Grandma, and in return she gobbled Grandpa’s knob. Read more

Successfully Navigating Speed Dating

With the launch party/speed-dating event of Finding Love Magazine looming, I’ve been getting bombarded with questions about speed dating protocol. Since you only have five to ten minutes to decide whom you consider long-term partner material, you must make your speed dating count.

Beautiful women love to go speed dating because men often don’t have the courage to approach them in a normal social setting, and it’s a fun night out with their girlfriends.  This is not the case for the guys. Eligible men don’t round up their buddies on a Saturday night for a few beers and two hours of speed dating just for fun. The guys on your left and right will often be unattractive, dull, socially awkward, or live with their mother. If this is you, don’t panic! Ladies tend not too be too shallow, and one of these traits probably won’t be a deal breaker, but you’ll stand out from the crowd if you don’t have too many of them. Read more

Your Online Dating Profile

So you are ready to take the plunge into online dating and aren’t sure how to start.  Perhaps you’ve had a profile up for some time and have not had any luck with it. Either way, I will be going over the do’s and don’ts of your online dating profile.  Although my advice will be geared towards guys, you ladies might want to take heed as well.  As you design your online dating profile, remember to keep these guidelines fresh in your mind. Read more

A No Nonsense Pick Up

Let’s face it. The Internet is abound with dating tips, pick up lines, and various styles and tricks to close the deal, but the reality is that most of it is bogus.  There is NEVER a sure fire way to get a girl.  Once you understand that concept, getting a date becomes much easier. Read more